Like men, women too have urges and they don't have to be embarrassed if they are feeling like rubbing or touching their genitals.
In some societies, a woman who masturbates or rubs their clit is considered to be indecent and even her character is questioned.
However, when the same things are done by a man, he is considered to be vigorous or full of sexual energy.
We had to tell you this before spilling out our beans today because what we are about to tell is going to change your life or at least sexual life for sure.
Therefore, keeping the hypocritical view of some people aside, let us discuss the main topic on which we are going to shed some light today.
Clit, clitoris, love button, or whatever you like to call it, is the most special part of the body of a female. Despite being one of the most stimulating parts of their bodies, some women tend to ignore it completely.
The word Clitoris is derived from the Greek word 'Klietoris’ which simply means a small hill. It is covered by skin and also sometimes called a woman's dick simply because it gets hard and erects if someone stimulates it.
However, unlike the penis that performs many duties like discharging urine, semen, etc. the clit only serves as an organ that arouses a woman.
Therefore, women should consider themselves lucky as they have an organ that has been only providing for self-pleasure. Countless women across the world do not feel satisfied even after having sex simply because their clit did not receive the attention it deserves.
The lack of stimulation experienced by your clit not only reduces the intensity of your orgasms but it also leaves you unfulfilled and you crave something inexplicable.
Therefore, for the sake of our women readers, we are going to explain all the things that need to be done to experience rocking orgasms by teasing and stimulating their clitoris.
What is clit orgasm, and what it feels like?
Clit orgasm is when you massage your clit to stimulate the erogenous zone, and after a while, you achieve orgasm. Some women like to use clit sex toys to massage their clit, while others like to use their fingers. It depends on what you prefer.
The experience you will have is hard to define because different women experiences IT in a different way. You will just know that you have orgasm through clit massage. The feeling is very different from a G-spot orgasm.
Just in case if you are one of those who think that they can’t cum, then you are not alone. There are tons of ladies who think that way, and this article on female masturbation might help you to cum effectively. Do give it a read.
Tips for the Beginners
The clitoris is a small part that is found on the top of the vulva.
According to scientists, it has 8000 nerve endings that make it capable of providing intense pleasure to a woman. It resembles a button and plays a huge role in your orgasms. Believing the renowned personalities, orgasms cannot happen unless your clit is stimulated at least to a certain degree.
Therefore, you can see women in the porn movies rubbing their clit despite getting banged by a buff dude because they cannot cum without the help of this cute little thing.
Some women have such a sensitive clit that they even refrain from touching it directly and stimulate its external part of the region around it to experience shuddering orgasms. Now, let us look at some techniques that the beginners can use to stimulate their clit:
How to Have a Clitoral Orgasm
Rubbing sides
If you have never touched your clit directly and feel very dizzy and sensitive even when you touch somewhere nearby, we would suggest this technique. In this technique, you don’t have to stimulate your clit directly but you can just rub and push it from sides.
After that, you can massage the clitoral head lightly to experience little more sensations. Start applying light pressure from one side and try to rub from top to bottom from the other. Do not add too much pressure and avoid touching the clit directly.
You can keep adding some more pressure as you start enjoying it. If your clit is not getting stimulated, you can move closer towards it. Newbies should be able to experience orgasms by following these things.
However, if they do not reach an orgasm, they can even try touching their clit a bit and we guarantee that nothing would stop the love juices from coming out. If you are still afraid to touch or tease the clitoris directly, we suggest you use our second technique.
Moving fingers
Place your index finger an inch away from your clit first. After that, try tracing a circle with that finger. You will feel slight sensations and as you get used to it you can make the circle smaller. You can increase the pressure of your finger lightly and try to move it faster.
Decrease the distance between your finger and clit by making the circle smaller. You can also use your fingernails to tease your clit from the outside or just keep doing what you were until you reach on the verge of climaxing.
If you don't feel enough sensations with one finger, you can try the same method by using multiple fingers at once. When even that is not enough, you can use your hand to massage and apply pressure around your clit.
You can also run one finger after another in a circular motion by using your hand.
Moreover, you can just run your fingers from one end to another in such a way that the fingers get close enough to the clit. Do what stimulates your clit the most and do not forget to think about your crush as you reach orgasm!
After using these two techniques for some time, the beginners must proceed towards more intense stimulation by teasing and touching their clitoris directly. Let us see some techniques the beginners can use if they are comfortable in playing with their clit directly.
Diagonal moves
Use your index finger again and make it a little firm and flat this time. After that, start rubbing your clit diagonally from one end to the other. You can use two or more fingers for experiencing more powerful and tingling sensations between your legs.
As you become comfortable with the direct contact of the fingers, increase the pace and try to make the movement shorter by running the fingers only on the clit as if you are slapping it fast from both ends. This technique is also known as the flicking clitoris technique.
Experiment with various methods
It does not matter how many fingers and which motion you use while playing with your clit as long as you are enjoying it. You can also try multiple techniques in a single session to please yourselves completely. Some women tap their clit gently because it helps them to reach orgasm quickly.
How to Have and Enhance Your Clitoral Orgasm
Hinting
Hinting is a special technique that is only helpful for the ladies who want to experience orgasms without teasing their love button directly. In this technique, you need to focus on a particular area that is very close to your clit.
After that, you can use one of your fingers to flick around the clit. Remember that you cannot touch the clit directly but try to get as close as you can. As you start stroking around the clit, you will experience erotic sensations around your genitals.
Increase the pace and intensity of the flicks until you explode a thunderous orgasm. Now, let us see some of the most interesting techniques that only experience women and girls can use.
These techniques are not for the beginners because they not only include teasing and touching the clit externally but also focus on stimulating the inner parts of the clit that are attached to the vulva. For that, let us first study the anatomy of the clitoris correctly.
The tip of the clit is called the glans and looks similar to the glans of the male penis but is much smaller in size. Right below the clit, you will find two bulb-like structures. The clit itself has two long legs or shafts that go as deep as five inches inside.
All these parts can be teased and stimulated to experience powerful orgasms. You can feel the legs of your clitoris by pulling it upwards or by pushing it downwards.
Moreover, you can also hold the clit and move it in circular or diagonal motion from its base to experience some sensations in the shaft and bulbs.
Note: the pair of legs is also called shaft or crura.
Play with your partner
Clitoral stimulation is itself satisfying but the level of your pleasures can reach new verticals if you have a devoting and loving husband or partner.
Getting your clit teased by your partner can be compared with the hand job or blow job you give to your man. However, getting your clit touched by the fingers and hand of your partner is not enough because the clit is a too small and complex organ as compared to a penis.
Therefore, it is better to get it sucked or licked by your partner to enjoy a steamy foreplay session. If you have a sensitive clit, you can start by yourself and as you progress towards orgasm, you can ask your partner to touch or kiss your clit.
The feeling will be enough to drive you in a state of ecstasy. However, if you are strong enough to get sucked and nibbled by your partner, you can ask him to give the shape of ‘Ó’to his lips. After that, ask him to take your clit in the mouth for suckling it as a baby sucks the teats.
He can also make a humming noise while sucking because it feels warmer and the sensations drive you crazy.
Tongue flicking
The tongue is one of the most delicate parts of a human body and using it to tease another sensitive part which is clit can be the ultimate thing to do. Ask your partner to flick your clitoris with his tongue the same way you would do with your finger.
For that, he will have to make his tongue tight and firm before flicking. The flicking can be combined with occasional licking for a more tantalizing experience. Some men like to kiss, suck, and flick the clit randomly because unpredictable moves can be more fun and arousing.
However, the tongue flicking technique itself is enough to give you smooth and warm orgasms. Moreover, he can also penetrate his tongue slightly inside to tease the bulbs and legs of your clit.
Using his penis
If there is something that can arouse a woman more than a man’s lips and tongue it has to be his penis. Therefore, there is no need to hold it back from your clitoral stimulation sessions when you both are near each other.
Undress your man and remove his underwear. Fetch his dick and tease it for a while until it gets erect and hard. Lie flat on your back without wearing any clothes (at least remove your panties). Ask him to come over you and place the tip of his penis (glans) on your clit.
Ask him to brush or rub his dick on your clit lightly. After a while, ask him to push your clit with his glans and then he can mount his balls on them. He can also try to grind your clit lightly to create enough sensations to stimulate you both.
Moreover, he can also penetrate you once in a while to provide that extra bit of stimulation that is required to push you off the edge. However, do not let him penetrate more than once at a time because then you will soon forget clitoral stimulation and start fucking each other.
Using water
Clitoris is quite sensitive to water especially if it is nice and warm. It also gets stimulated if tiny jets of warm water hit it on various spots. For that, you can use the shower handle to bring the nozzles of the shower closer to your clit.
After that, you can start the shower to experience fast and warm water jets on your clit and in and around your pussy. If the pressure is right, the water might even reach the shaft and bulbs of your clit to stimulate you more.
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Use Sex Toys
Sex toys can also be used to achieve a clitoral orgasm. Most women have a vibrator these days and some vibrators come with rabbit ears that are specifically designed to tease your clit. If you do not have a vibrator, you can use a simple dildo to push and stimulate your clit.
However, playing with dildo might not prove to be enough and you might need to use your fingers at the end to relieve yourself. Things get kinkier and nastier with vibrators. Some vibrators are specially designed to play with your clit and these clitoral vibrators are available at cheaper rates in the online market.
However, if you do not have a vibrator that is specifically designed for teasing your clit then you can also use simple bullet vibrators. Also, you can detach these bullet vibrators from your regular vibrator to play with your clit. Follow these steps to achieve a powerful orgasm using a bullet vibrator or any other clitoral vibrator:
Step 1: Clean your pussy
Step 2: Turn on the Vibrations
Step 3: Increase the Intensity
Step 4: Focus on a single point
Step 5: Ask your partner to tease you
Step 6: Give in to the Pleasures
Best toys that will help you have clitoral orgasm
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There are some other ways of arousing your clit and we will be discussing those methods and techniques now.
Clitoral Stimulation Positions to Make Her Cum Fast!
CAT
CAT is the abbreviated form of the Coital Alignment Technique. In this method, your partner can penetrate you as deep as you need and he still can stimulate your clit. For that, ask your partner to penetrate deep in your pussy while you lie on your back.
Ask him to lean forward as much as you can. Also, tell him to avoid thrusting or stroking as he would do in a missionary sex position. Instead, let him be inside you and arch your back in such a way that his body (especially the lower torso) makes contact with yours.
After that, ask him to grind you lightly. This will rub your clit and you will feel the pressure and weight of his body on it. This will arouse you and you might not need anything else apart from some more grinding.
However, if he is not doing it properly or if that is not creating enough pressure, then you too can grind back and the friction will be too good to resist cumming.
Thigh ride
If you want more control in this game, you can ask your partner to lie on his back. After that, you can ask him to part both his legs so that you can sit on his lower abdomen. Now, ask him to bend one of his legs.
Hug that leg from both your arms and come closer to his bent thigh in such a way that your clit rubs against it. Start riding his thigh until you cum hard. Your partner can spank your ass from behind to make the session kinkier or he can finger your anus to make you cum more.
Ride on his dick
This is probably one of the kinkiest ways to achieve a clitoral orgasm. For that, you should make your man lie flat on his back. After that, you need to stroke his penis or you can also use your mouth to make it hard and long.
Once his member is hard, you can ask him to bring his legs closer. Now, bend his dick back till it rests on his lower abdomen. After that, position yourself in such a way that your clit rubs against his penis. Now, move up and down on his shaft until the wonderful sensations take your over.
You can also kiss him during this session keeping his erection hard.
Final Verdict
These were some smart ideas and tips that could provide you a titillating clit orgasm. Use them to release your sexual tension and if you know some more techniques, please do not forget to share them in the comments section.